The 5 Must-Ask Questions for Your Fertility Doc

Booked your first fertility appointment? Big step. These 5 smart questions will help you walk in confident, clear, and totally prepped to advocate for your future baby. We wish we had this during our own appointments - so do yourself (and your group chat) a favour: screen grab and share now.

1. What tests should we start with?

Why it matters:
You can’t fix what you don’t understand. Tests = clarity. And yes, your partner will need some too.

Ask this:

What tests do you recommend for me and my partner?
How do they work, and what do they tell us?
Do we need to prep (like fasting or timing with cycles)?

2. What are our treatment options?

Why it matters:
You’ve got choices. Let’s make sure they’re clear, realistic, and based on your actual results and not guesswork.

Ask this:

Based on our results, what treatments make the most sense?
What are the success rates for each?
Any risks or side effects we should know about?

3. Should we change anything in our lifestyle?

Why it matters:
What you eat, drink, and do daily can impact your fertility. Small tweaks = big benefits.

Ask this:

Any foods or supplements you recommend?
What kind of exercise is best right now?
Should we cut back on caffeine, booze, or anything else

4. What will treatment actually look like?

Why it matters:
Fertility treatment isn’t always a straight line. Understanding the timeline helps you plan your life (and avoids *those* stress spirals).

Ask this:

What is the timeline for the treatment you’re recommending?
How many appointments are we talking about, and what happens at each?
Are there any common side effects or surprises we should prep for?

5. How much is this all going to cost?

Why it matters:
Fertility care can be pricey and no one wants a surprise bill so manage your expectations. Clarity helps you plan (and breathe that little bit easier).

Ask this: